All around the world

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A friend suggested I make a list of all the places I’ve been so far in my life. I thought it might be interesting, so here goes.

Another friend suggested uploading a map to show where I am/have been/am going – I’d love to do that but I lack the technical know-how (or the time to gain it) to do it. So if anyone wants to help me with that, please let me know!

 

Italy – country of my birth where I spent the first 18/19 years of my life.

UK – the country I call home. Mainly London, with jaunts in Scotland, the West Country and Leicester. Never been to Wales, can you believe that?!?!? I must rectify this ASAP.

USA – This was the first time I went abroad, ever, at age 16. New York had been my dream for years and years, so much so that going there felt like being in a movie… I have been back many times since, more than I can count. I have been to the East coast and the West coast, a little bit in the “midwest” (hello Ohio!) but it is such a big place that I feel like I’m only now scratching the surface. More trips needed. Plus some of my dearest friends ever live there so…

Ireland – if you live in the UK you MUST go to Ireland. Having said that I’ve only really visited Dublin… still… I checked “drinking a Guinness in Dublin”  off my bucket list. The Irish remind me a lot of the Italians, btw.

Portugal – only Lisbon and surrounding areas. Beautiful sunny weekend. Highly recommend it.

Spain – Madrid (cool) and Lanzarote in the Canaries (which tbh it’s like another country, however officially it IS in Spain). Loved, loved, loved the Canaries, I will definitely be back, especially in Lanzarote, due to its volcanic landscape and the amazing architecture of Cesar Manrique.

France – Paris (many times, both for work and pleasure) and the Aveyron region. Need to do more. This wish is tempered by my innate dislike of French speakers and by the fact that I never fell in love with Paris, which many people seem to do. But thumbs up for some (only some) of the food.

Switzerland – in my old days of working for an airline, we got taken to Zurich for the day. Not much else to say.

Austria – Only really crossed into it while skiing in the Alps.

Germany – I’ve only been to Munich. Beautiful city, and I visited Dachau, which was very emotional. Berlin is beckoning me and I will need to go very soon.

Greece – Had a fab holiday there with a very good friend. Athens is beautiful but also crazy. And Greek food was a big disappointment. But I’m willing to give it another try! Some things of Greece remind me too much of Italy…

Belgium – Ah Belgium, one of my first loves. Being totally crazy for the bands dEUS and Zita Swoon, and having become friends with some of their members eons ago, I made my way to the lovely Antwerp for secret gigs and general shenanigans. I liked it so much I went back 10 times in the space of a couple of years. I could live there if I were happy to become an alcoholic… 🙂 The people of Antwerp are amongst the nicest I have ever encountered in my life, and their chocolate truffles are second to none! Cherry beer also rocked, and photography museums. I must go back, soon. On the other hand, Brussels left me underwhelmed. I guess I need a good guide.

Netherlands – The rain. Oh, the rain in July! But the people are so nice! Wageningen was interesting. Amsterdam more so. It’s on the slate as one of the other (very few) places where I *think* I might live if I ever decided to leave London. Food for thought. Also, my lovely co-writer is from the Netherlands, and I think that says a lot. And how can I forget that it is one of the countries with the tallest people on earth? I feel right at home!

Norway – I’ve only been to Stavanger to visit friends. Liked it. But prices for everything are just astronomical so further exploration is hampered (for now).

Sweden – I went to Stockholm with the sistah last year. We had great weather, a crazy Airbnb host, and a blast. Sistah now lives there, so I will need to return sooner rather than later. I really liked it, it has a great vibe.

Former Yugoslavia – Apparently my parents took me there before I was even one – this was in Croatia, for a beach holiday. I would have thought this would signal a series of foreign holidays with the family, but that was the first and only time abroad. Sadface. No wonder I’ve been trying to make up for it ever since.

Morocco – My friend A. and I wanted to see what Marrakech was like to then maybe return and do more Morocco. She flew from Italy and I from London, and we met at a lovely riad. We loved Marrakech, the men’s attentions a bit less. Jardins Majorelle was my favourite location. Beautiful (I seem to fall in love with these outstanding homes around the world – strange, huh?). I definitely want to do more.

Egypt – Only flew through it, so doesn’t really count.

Jordan – Intoxicatingly beautiful and with lovely, warm people. I felt (and apparently looked!) at home there. Petra is probably the most amazing place I have ever been. Hurry up, the wind is eroding it!

Israel – Land of some very good friends. Beautiful, with amazing food. Strangely welcoming in some respects, and the opposite of that in others. Life in Tel Aviv is good and you almost forget you’re in a country that is permanently “at war”. Jerusalem is incredible and every place, every name evokes something dormant in my “non-catholic raised in a catholic land” brain.

Dubai – The only place in the world where I had a few bad experiences. I decided to visit for a few days en route to Thailand once. Let’s just say that for a woman alone and without a car, Dubai is not really welcoming… go with someone, in a group or hire a car, then you will be safe.

Malaysia – Interesting, weird place. Very westernised (they love their Christmas decorations and Starbucks!) but also deeply Muslim. Racial discrimination also is quite odd. The place drips with history and names from long-forgotten children’s adventure stories. I enjoyed Penang most of all.

Thailand – I left a piece of my heart in this amazingly beautiful country. My dream is now to build an eco house on a Thai island and spend half my time there. Maybe I will make it one day! I am in love with the nature, the food, the people… for now I choose to disregard the political and human rights situation, but knowing me I would not be able to do so for long. But expat life in Thailand is second to none. Also home of one of my favourite places ever: Jim Thompson’s house. Can I pretty please move in there?

Singapore – Asia lite. My first ever taste of Asia. Probably the best food I’ve ever had. That’s it.

Cambodia – Gorgeous, shocking, amazing, maddening. Went to Angkor Wat for 2 days and ended up staying for 7. The most beautiful smiles you’ll ever see. The most awful living and physical reminder you’ll see of hell on earth – the effects of the Khmer Rouge regime. Sobering.

Vietnam – I always say the Vietnamese are the Neapolitans of Asia – but only Italians will understand this comment. A chaotic, febrile country where nearly all the past has been wiped away (most of them can’t even remember the war or don’t know what it was about) in a mad rush for what appears to be “progress” but it’s something I can’t define. Food is out of this world, including their coffee and cakes (only place in SE Asia where this stuff is good – I guess a big thank you to the French!).

Canada – I’ve only been twice for very short breaks. I like Canadians and their spirit, but I think to find out more I need to visit outside the cities. In any case, Toronto over Montreal any day!

Argentina – My first time in South America. As readers of this blog will know, I did not have the best of times in Buenos Aires, including being robbed at gunpoint. Too much of Argentina reminds me of the bad things of Italy. I won’t be back in a hurry, however I do want to see the country as opposed to Buenos Aires… but this time with a group of friends.

Uruguay – My only other foray into South America. It was a quick trip from Buenos Aires, just to go somewhere by the sea and chill out for a few days. Interesting place. I will definitely need to return at some point.

 

The sad thing is that writing this list only makes me want to go to those places I haven’t yet visited!

As for new places on the horizon, I am hoping both Burma/Myanmar and Australia will be happening soon in 2016. See you around the world.

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Ich bin ein Vermonter (EN)

(with apologies to my German speaking friends)

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Summer in Vermont means humidity (how else did you think those big and numerous trees grew so many leaves, huh?), and humidity in the woods means one thing: bugs.

For some reason, insects of the biting and stinging variety are my personal stalkers. It doesn’t matter what type of spray I use, or even how many (several at once, of course), the bastards always keep on biting. At times it’s so bad that I get infections and scars. I have some scars on my ankles that are from two years ago…

And of course, nature is boundless in Vermont, it isn’t limited to bugs. You get deer, moose, owls, bears (yes, bears), chipmunks, squirrels and surely many others I have not encountered.

My first encounter with the delightful chipmunk occurred one afternoon while I was working on the sunny deck under the parasol. S and M, the lovelies I am staying with here, have two twin white cats, which during the day are let out to prowl the surrounding area and hunt. So there I was, tapping away at my laptop, when I hear the thud-thud-thud of one of the cats running across the deck, accompanied by a faster click-click-click – it all happened so fast: the chipmunk being chased, in the panic to save its life, ran up my bare leg as if it was a tree trunk, then at my knee it must have realised I was a tree of the human variety, so it jumped off, just as I jumped up screaming, startled by it. It dashed towards the house and climbed up the screen door, where the cat reached it. The chipmunk was holding on for dear life high above the cat, which was already licking her lips. We intervened, put the cat indoors and let the chipmunk escape.

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But this is a daily occurrence. We have to be watchful of the cats bringing anything in their mouths in the house (as they have done – we found entrails by their food bowl). It’s funny because S thinks they are doing this to “train” me to hunt, as I am the new arrival. As many of you know, I have, at best, a difficult relationship with cats. But these two beauties have worked hard to make me love them. When at night I sit to watch TV, either one of them will curl up on my lap for hours (while I sit there a bit rigid!). Or when I am working they try to distract me, ask for food, want to be let out or simply play with me… naughty girls.

There are so few people in Vermont… driving an hour simply to meet a friend is considered normal. It is true that in the city we spend a lot of time in transit, but that time is usually due to the fact that we are on foot and there are many other people also transiting. Here, an hour’s drive is an ACTUAL hour’s drive, not traffic or changing trains.

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Almost everyone here seems to be an artist or to be creative in some way or another. The house is full of beautiful ceramics made by friends, wooden creations by M (including knives!), the shops showcase many types of craft. People grow their vegetables and fruit, preserving and drying through the summer to last through the winter months. In many ways it is an idyllic existence, so close to nature. But I am aware also of the hard work necessary to do it (coming home after a long day at work then spending hours tending the vegetables – that in the meantime may have been mauled by deer – or slicing and drying tomatoes) and also that winter time is bound to be very different: when feet of snow prevent you from leaving your house and daylight hours are precious and short, you hibernate. So I enjoy this life for these few short weeks, indulging in the company of my lovely friends, knowing that, at least for now, this is not the set-up for me. I am still a city girl at heart, I still need regular stimuli of the non-nature kind. But like the people who live here in beautiful Vermont, not many of us can live within just one of these “worlds”. In my own way, I have found a way to partake of these different experiences and not be just a city person. I wish more people were able to do that, in both directions.

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S and M are such wonderful hosts and friends. The best moment is when either one of them asks “what are your desires for dinner?” and then anything is possible. Eating vegetables and herbs just picked from the garden is great, and Vermont has a great production of organic food. The local COOP is a veritable treasure trove of delightful food.

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There’s a hot tub out on the deck. We spent a couple of nights soaking in the hot (solar-heated) water, watching the stars and the fireflies buzzing around us. It was magic. They make me feel at home and happy. And I guess the cats do too, in their own way 🙂

I’ll have to come back in winter…